Wow so much happened up to this time in our lives, I lost Tony and the kids lost their dad to the Big C what a time for us, but we did get through, and I think grew a lot stronger for it, I do not think we could have grown closer because we were all very close. I do not believe that anything could ever break that bond. Then the house burned down with all we owned, wow 7 mins it took just seven mins for everything to be gone, then starting out again and waiting for somwhere to live nothing, nothing left wow it is still incredible to me to think about it, Fire Brigades, Tv cameras everywhere, and Nat throwing stones at them and asking them if they didnt have anything better to do with themselves, all at 3 am in the morning.